Our approach

Every child is worth knowing

When kids understand their feelings, everything gets a little easier: at home, at school and with friends. That's why Topy starts with your child, not a script.

Pre-K through 12th grade · 100% virtual, from home

Our mission

Topy helps kids and their parents understand big feelings and build the skills to handle them, through one-on-one coaching that meets every family with kindness, patience and care.

Our vision

A generation of kids who understand their feelings, believe in themselves and treat others with kindness, and homes where families feel calmer together.

What we believe

Three beliefs behind every session

Every child is worth knowing.

Before we plan a single session, we learn who your child is: their strengths, their worries and what lights them up.

Big feelings are a skill to grow.

They aren't a problem to fix. We help kids notice, name and navigate what they feel, with patience and without shame.

Parents are partners, never spectators.

You know your child best. We keep you in the loop with updates, printables and tools you can use at home.

Why social-emotional learning

The skills that last a lifetime

Social-emotional learning (SEL) is how kids learn to manage emotions, build healthy relationships and make thoughtful choices. Topy's coaching is built on the CASEL framework, the leading research standard for SEL.

Self-awareness

Understanding feelings, strengths and who they are.

"I know when I'm getting upset."

Self-management

Calming down, handling stress and staying motivated.

"I can use my calm-down plan."

Social awareness

Seeing things from someone else's point of view.

"I think my friend feels left out."

Relationship skills

Communicating clearly, making friends and working through conflict.

"I can say how I feel and listen too."

Responsible decisions

Making safe, thoughtful choices and owning them.

"Let me think before I choose."
The Topy journey

Growth you can see

No guessing. Here's what happens from the first conversation onward.

We get to know your child

A free call with Dr. Ruiz, then an intake and SEL evaluation to understand your child's strengths and needs.

A plan built for them

We match your child with a dedicated coach and build a plan around their goals.

Weekly 1:1 sessions

30-minute live sessions from home, each planned by Topy, plus a printable activity to practice the skill.

Progress you can see

Monthly updates and a progress check-in with a parent report every 8 weeks, so you can watch your child grow.

Who coaches your child

Caring people. A proven plan.

Great coaching shouldn't depend on luck. Every Topy coach brings the same heart, preparation and standard of care to every session.

We hire for heart

Our coaches bring backgrounds in education, psychology and counseling. Just as important, they're kind, compassionate and hard-working. Every coach meets our leadership for a final culture interview before they ever meet a child.

Every session is planned by Topy

Sessions are designed by Topy on the CASEL framework, so every child gets the same thoughtful, research-based coaching, whoever their coach is.

Matched with care

We match your child with a coach based on their needs, personality and your family's schedule.

One dedicated coach

Your child works with the same coach week after week, so trust and confidence can grow.

Dr. Priscilla Ruiz, founder of Topy
Meet our founder

Dr. Priscilla Ruiz

Dr. Ruiz founded Topy to give kids the emotional tools that help them thrive. She brings more than 15 years in psychology and education, a Ph.D. in Psychology and a master's in Curriculum and Instruction.

She's also a mom of three, so she knows the ups and downs of family life firsthand. She's the first person you'll talk to on your free call, and she leads the plan behind every Topy session.

Ph.D., PsychologyMaster's, Curriculum & InstructionSEL CoachESE CertifiedK–6 Teacher Certified
Who we serve

Kids and teens, Pre-K–12

  • Pre-K through 12th grade (ages 4–18).
  • Under 4? We work directly with the parent.
  • Still in high school but 18+? We've got them covered too.
Coaching, not therapy

A proactive alternative

Topy is skills-based coaching for big emotions, confidence and friendships. We help kids build skills before small struggles become big ones. If we ever believe a child needs clinical care, we'll tell you.

Learn about the CASEL framework →

Start at home

Not ready for coaching? Start tonight.

Our self-guided programs give parents the same caring, practical tools our coaches use, at your own pace and from your own living room. When you want more support, a Topy coach is ready.

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Let's get to know your child.

Book a free call with Dr. Ruiz. No cost, no pressure, just a caring conversation about your family.