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The Calm-Down Toolbox

Five calm-down tools your child can use anywhere, free from Topy's coaches.

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Cover of The Calm-Down Toolbox, a free printable from Topy with five calm-down tools for kids

Sound familiar?

When your child's feelings get big, you don't need a lecture. You need something you can do together, right now.

The meltdown at bedtimeThe slammed doorThe tears at drop-off

What's inside

Five tools our coaches teach every week, written so a child can follow along.

Belly Breathing

5-4-3-2-1 Grounding

Shake and Squeeze

The Inside Weather Check

Pause, Think, Choose

"When feelings get BIG" fridge card
What to do when the tools aren't enough
Your next step: matching your child with the right Topy playbook or coach
4–12years old

Who it's for

For kids ages 4 to 12, and the grown-ups who love them. Each tool comes with steps for you and your child, so you can practice it together.

You don't have to do this alone

Every family gets a free 30-minute call with Dr. Ruiz.

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Questions

Is it really free?

Yes. The Calm-Down Toolbox costs $0. You get a printable PDF right away.

What do I get?

An 11-page printable PDF: five kid-friendly calm-down tools with steps for you and your child, plus a "When feelings get BIG" fridge card.

Can I print more than one copy?

Yes. Print as many copies as your own family needs.

What if the tools aren't enough?

The toolbox covers what to do when the tools aren't enough. You can also book a free 30-minute call with Dr. Ruiz.

Is this therapy?

No. Topy offers coaching, not therapy or medical care.

Kids are only kids for a little while.

The calm you practice together now becomes the calm they carry with them.

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Topy offers coaching, not therapy. If your child is in danger, call 911. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988.