a 4-week playbook · ages 6 to 14

Confidence Builders at Home

Help your child quiet the inner critic, try hard things and like who they are.

Get the playbook · $27
Cover of Confidence Builders at Home, a 4-week Topy playbook for kids ages 6 to 14
exactly who they are

Sound familiar?

"I'm not good at anything."
"Everyone else is better."
"Why even try?"

When your child talks about themselves this way, it breaks your heart, and it can be hard to know what to say.

What's inside

Built from the work Topy coaches do with children every week, with real-life stories from families like yours. Each week pairs one confidence skill with activities you do together.

week one

Know Your Strengths

week two

Talk Back to the Inner Critic

week three

Praise the Process

week four

Brave and Be Me

  • Kid activities: My Confidence Backpack, Strength Spotter Log, Inner Critic or Inner Coach?, The Power of Yet, My Brave Step Plan and more
  • "Your voice becomes their voice": a page for parents
  • "Say this, not that" scripts for building real confidence
  • What Topy coaching looks like, and when to get more help
6–14years old

Who it's for

Families with kids ages 6 to 14. Your voice becomes their inner voice, so every week shows you what to say.

You don't have to do this alone

Every family gets a free 30-minute call with Dr. Ruiz. Playbook buyers also get the $60 intake fee waived if they start coaching.

Book your free call

Questions

How much time does it take?

One 15-minute family session a week, plus a 2-minute daily practice. Spending two weeks on one skill is fine.

What do I get?

An instant download: a 27-page printable PDF with four weekly lessons, kid activities, parent pages and scripts.

Is this therapy?

No. Topy offers coaching, not therapy or medical care. If you're worried about your child's safety, call 911.

Can I print more than one copy?

Yes. Print as many copies as your own family needs. Teachers and schools: ask us about classroom licenses.

How do I book my free call?

Book your free 30-minute call with Dr. Ruiz whenever you're ready.

Can I get a refund?

Because the playbook is an instant download, all sales are final.

Kids are only kids for a little while.

The way they learn to talk to themselves now is the voice they'll carry for life.

Get the playbook · $27

Topy offers coaching, not therapy. If your child is in danger, call 911. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988.