4-week playbook · ages 4 to 10

Two Homes, One Strong Me

Help your child feel loved, safe and steady in both homes.

Get the playbook · $27
Cover of Two Homes, One Strong Me, a 4-week Topy playbook for children ages 4 to 10 who live in two homes

Sound familiar?

The packed bag by the door.
The quiet car ride after a handoff.
The question you weren't ready for: "Is it my fault?"

When a family changes shape, children need to hear the same few things again and again: you are loved, you are safe, and this is not your fault.

What's inside

Built from the work Topy coaches do with children and parents every week, with real-life stories from families like yours. Each week builds one piece of steadiness.

Week 1

Families Can Look Different and Still Be Loving

Week 2

Listening Ears and Calm Bodies

Week 3

Things That Stay the Same

Week 4

Understanding Big Feelings

  • Kid activities: My Family Loves Me Map, My Handoff Calm Plan, My Two-Home Routine, My Comfort Item Card, My Feelings Suitcase and more
  • "Three messages, again and again" and "How children may react": pages for parents
  • "Say this, not that" scripts and "Keep your child out of the middle" co-parenting tips
  • A Strong Me certificate to celebrate finishing
  • What Topy coaching looks like, and when to call in more support
4–10years old

Who it's for

Families with children ages 4 to 10 who live in two homes. It works whether you're co-parenting smoothly or just getting through the week.

You don't have to do this alone

Every family gets a free 30-minute call with Dr. Ruiz. Playbook buyers also get the $60 intake fee waived if they start coaching.

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Questions

How much time does it take?

About 15 minutes once a week to do the kid pages together, plus 2 minutes a day to practice. Go at your child's pace.

Does it work if only one parent uses it?

Yes. It works whether you're co-parenting smoothly or just getting through the week.

What do I get?

An instant download: a 28-page printable PDF with four weekly lessons, kid activities, parent pages, scripts and a Strong Me certificate.

Is this therapy?

No. Topy offers coaching, not therapy or medical care. If you're worried about your child's safety, call 911.

Can I print more than one copy?

Yes. Print as many copies as your own family needs. Teachers and schools: ask us about classroom licenses.

Can I get a refund?

Because the playbook is an instant download, all sales are final.

Kids are only kids for a little while.

Help yours grow up knowing both homes are full of love.

Get the playbook · $27

Topy offers coaching, not therapy. If your child is in danger, call 911. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988.